You may want to view this video first, explaining the basics. Then learn more details below.
Domestic Violence Hotlines
Statewide Sexual Assault Hotline
You can get a Protection from Abuse Order against:
Also, adults 60 years of age or older, dependent adults, and incapacitated adults can seek protection against extended family members and unpaid care providers.
If you are being harassed in other ways, or by persons not on this list, you can ask for a Protection from Harassment Order. You can get the forms from any District Court or online.
If you are responsible for a minor child, you can ask for an Order on behalf of the child. If you are both being abused, you can ask the Court to give an order that will protect both of you.
NOTE: Bringing a complaint solely on behalf of an abused child can be complicated. The Court rules can make it difficult to "prove" your case. Before taking this step, you may want to get advice from a Domestic Violence Project lawyer.
You can go to the District Court:
If that judge is not available, another Court can issue an order.
Get a list of District Courts.
NOTE: If you have moved to escape your abuser, and you file your complaint in the county where you are now living, your abuser will know, from the court papers, which county you live in.
There are no court fees.
Prepare the required court forms. You can get interactive forms online or go to the court clerk's office and ask for a Protection from Abuse forms packet. Our newest online self-help tool asks you a series of questions, then fills out the forms for you. If you have trouble understanding the forms, ask the court clerk, a friend, or a domestic abuse advocate for help.
Where to get help with court forms and other support:
Fill out the form as completely as you can. You are the Plaintiff and the person who abused you is the Defendant. If you are bringing the complaint for your child, list yourself as Plaintiff "on behalf of" your child. If both of you have been abused, state that you are complaining on behalf of yourself and your child.
Describe the abuse with as much detail as you remember. Example: "On June 20 of this year John Doe slapped me on the face. Then he kicked me on the legs causing bruises. The next day he told me he would kill my cat if I tell anyone or don't do as he says."
In the last section of the form, where you are asking the Court to give certain orders, be sure to check all of the boxes that apply to you. You can change your mind later and drop any requests. But if you leave any boxes unchecked, the Judge may not let you ask for those remedies later on (because the Defendant was not put on notice).
If the defendant has a dangerous weapon, you can ask the court to stop them from having or using dangerous weapons as part of the PFA Order.
"Dangerous weapons" can be more than just guns. Here are some other examples of dangerous weapons:
Here's what to do if you want the court to stop the defendant from having dangerous weapons:
Some of the factors the court will consider are whether:
If you know what dangerous weapons the defendant has, make sure to describe them. You can do this in the affidavit that you file with your PFA Complaint. Give as much detail as you can. Include:
Where the Complaint form asks for your name and address, write your name only. Then ask the clerk for an Affidavit for Confidential Address form, or get the form online (interactive). State in the affidavit why you think this information must be kept private, for the safety of you or your children. Give your affidavit to the clerk along with your other papers. The clerk will then "seal" this information, so that others can't see it. If the Defendant objects to this in writing, the court could hold a hearing to decide whether the clerk must still keep the information secret.
Let the clerk know if your address changes before your case is done.
If you don't think that this will provide the protection you need, talk to your nearest Domestic Violence Project about the "Address Confidentiality Program." Passed by the Maine legislature in 2002, and strengthened in 2014, this program gives you a legal address separate from your actual address. The Maine Secretary of State assigns the alternative address, gets your mail at that address, then forwards it to you. When notified that you have such an alternative address, all state and local agencies, including the courts, are required to use that address. Only the Secretary of State can make exceptions to this rule and only under very narrow legal exceptions. Some domestic violence projects can also provide temporary alternative addresses.
If you need protection right away, check the box asking for a Temporary Order. If the judge who reads your complaint agrees that you are in immediate and present danger, she will give an order right away. The order will take effect as soon as it is served on the defendant. If the judge does not give a temporary order, you will still have the chance to get an order later, after a court hearing.
The complaint has to be notarized. This means that you must sign the complaint, swearing that it is true, in front of the court clerk, a notary public, or a lawyer.
The clerk may also ask you to fill out a Protection Order Service Information form. On this form, write down where the defendant can be found. This will help the police or sheriff find the defendant to serve the court papers.
If the defendant is not already ordered to pay child support, and you want the Court to order child support, ask the clerk for a Child Support Affidavit. You can file it with your complaint or fill it out later. If you fill it out later, file it with the clerk before your court hearing, send a copy to the defendant, and save a copy for yourself. Or bring multiple copies with you to your court hearing. You will also need to check the box on the Complaint form requesting child support.
NOTE: If you use our newest online self-help forms preparation tool, all of these forms will be prepared automatically, along with your Complaint, based on your answers to simple questions.
If you think that the defendant did not hand over all the dangerous weapons they own, you should call the police to let them know. You can also ask the court to issue a search warrant to allow the police to search and get the weapons from the defendant
Maybe. The clerk will show your Complaint to the judge. After he reads it, he may want to know more. Then he will talk to you. He may ask you to explain the abuse in more detail. If your Complaint has enough information, he may give a Temporary Order without talking to you. But Maine law requires the judge to listen to you and to explain his reasons before denying a Temporary Order.
Yes. If the judge gave a Temporary Order, the clerk will ask a police officer or deputy sheriff to serve the Complaint and Temporary Order and Notice of Hearing on the Defendant. The clerk should also give you copies of these papers. The Court must schedule a hearing within 21 days. The Notice of Hearing will tell you the date and time.
The court can issue a final order stopping the defendant from owning or using dangerous weapons. The court will issue this order along with the final PFA Order.
If the court does this, the defendant will not be allowed to have or use dangerous weapons while the final PFA Order is in effect. If you think the defendant has violated the final order and has dangerous weapons, you should call the police immediately. You can also ask the court to issue a search warrant. Read more about search warrants below.
If you think that the defendant did not hand over all the dangerous weapons they own, you should call the police to let them know. You can also ask the court to issue a search warrant to allow the police to search and get the weapons from the defendant.
Here's how to ask the court to issue a search warrant:
If the judge denies the Temporary Order after talking to you but you still want to pursue your case, the clerk will fill out a Summons. The Summons will tell the Defendant the date and time that your Complaint will be heard by the Court. She will give you copies of the Complaint and Summons. Take two copies of each to the police department or sheriff's office, along with the Service Information Sheet. They will serve all of these papers on the Defendant. Check back with them before your hearing to make sure they have sent a Return of Service back to the Court, showing that the Defendant got notice of the hearing. The Court cannot hold a hearing on your Complaint until the Defendant has been notified.
If the Temporary Order is granted, you will not have to pay the sheriff's service fee. If the Temporary Order is denied and you cannot afford the service fee, tell the clerk. He will give you an Application to Proceed Without Payment of Fees and Indigency Affidavit. This second form asks for financial information. If your only income is TANF or SSI, the Court should waive the fee. If the judge agrees that you cannot afford the cost of service, the fee will be waived.
If you have a good address for the Defendant, the Court will send out your Complaint and other required paperwork to the appropriate law enforcement agency. Then they will "serve" the Defendant with notice of your request for a PFA order. So you need to try to find out where the Defendant is living out of state. Again, you cannot be charged for this service.
You should still go to Court at the scheduled time. The judge will postpone the hearing and set a new date. This might happen a few times until the Defendant is served. After a time, if you don't have enough information about where the Defendant can be notified, or "served," you may need to dismiss your complaint and start again when you know the where the Defendant is. On the other hand, if you think you will be able to figure out soon where the Defendant can be "served," ask the judge to postpone the hearing and keep the clerk or law enforcement agency informed about the Defendant's location.
Yes. If you do not go, the Court will dismiss your case and your Temporary Order will end.
If you have a very compelling reason why you can't be at the hearing, you may ask the judge in writing for another hearing date. Give your request to the clerk. The judge will read it and decide if she will postpone the hearing or not.
Many Protection from Abuse cases are handled without a lawyer. If you believe that the other side will have a lawyer, however, or if there are complicated issues to be raised in your case, you may be better off with a lawyer. In any event, it is your choice.
If you want a lawyer for the hearing, call one as early as possible. If you cannot afford a lawyer, you may be able to get one through the Domestic Violence Project in your county or through Pine Tree Legal Assistance. If you do not want a lawyer but do not want to go alone, you can ask a friend to go with you. A non-lawyer advocate from the local domestic violence project may also be able to accompany you.
At the hearing, you will be asking the judge to continue the Temporary Order for up to two years. To get this, you must prove that the Defendant has abused you (or your child) in at least one of these ways:
When you are thinking about how to tell the judge your story, be aware of these legal categories of abuse.
If you know other people who saw or heard the abuse, or saw you right after the abuse happened, you may want to ask them to testify. You also have the right to subpoena witnesses. You can get subpoena forms from the clerk's office. It may not be a good idea to subpoena someone who is not willing to come on his own unless you are pretty sure that they will testify honestly and be helpful to your case. Keep in mind that, as a general rule, witnesses can only testify about what they actually saw and heard. Therefore, a lot of extra witnesses who did not actually observe any abuse, or the immediate results of the abuse, will probably not be very helpful to your case.
NOTE: Subpoena forms must be signed by either an attorney or a court clerk.
If you have brought the complaint on behalf of a child, be aware that your case may be difficult to prove. If the child is too young to testify, then you will need other admissible evidence to prove your case. You may need testimony from a professional who has treated your child, such as a health worker or counselor, especially if there are no other witnesses to the abuse who can testify.
Many documents contain out of court statements which cannot be used in court. Most police reports fall into this category. A medical report documenting injuries can be helpful, but you must ask the hospital to certify it first. A threatening letter or note from the Defendant can be used as evidence. If you have documents that you think may help prove your case, bring them and the judge will decide if she can rely on them or not. Any documents you present as evidence will go into the court file so make copies of papers you want to keep.
After the hearing, the judge will decide whether to extend your Order. If he does, then there will be questions about what to include in the Order. The Order will usually:
If you have mutual children, the Order may also:
You can also ask the judge to:
NOTE: If the judge orders the Defendant to relinquish weapons, the Order will specify when and to whom the weapons must be delivered. This can be a law enforcement agency or a trusted third party. If a third party is named to hold the weapons, the Defendant must immediately (within 24 hours) file a written statement explaining: 1) what weapons have been turned over; and 2) the name and address of the holder of the weapons. If these orders are not followed, the Court may issue a search warrant, to find and seize the weapons.
Think about any specific kind of relief you may need and be prepared to ask for it. For example:
If the Defendant does not come to court, then you may not have a hearing. Some judges will grant the Order without hearing. Tell the judge what you want the Order to say. Other judges will want you to testify briefly about the statements made in your complaint. Explain again how the Defendant has abused you. If your Temporary Order was denied, be prepared to tell the judge about the abuse in more detail. Then tell the judge what you want the Order to say.
If the Defendant appears and agrees to an Order being issued, then the judge will usually draft an Order at your request and sign it. In that case, you will not need a hearing. Tell the judge about any specific relief you need in the Order. If you get an "Order by agreement," it carries the same legal weight as an Order issued by a judge after a hearing. In other words, you can enforce it in the same way that an Order after full hearing is enforceable.
NOTE: If you or the other party has a lawyer, the lawyer may encourage you to enter into an Order by agreement. If you agree to such an Order, you give up your right to a hearing. Be very sure that you understand and are satisfied with the terms of any agreement before you accept an Order without a hearing.
If the Defendant contests your Complaint, then you will have a hearing so the judge can decide the issues you disagree on. Each witness will be sworn in. As the Plaintiff, you testify first. Tell the judge your story, describing the abuse as specifically as you can. Explain what happened and when. Then tell the judge about any specific relief you need and why. Tell the judge how long you want the order to last. If you have brought documents, ask the judge to consider them. If you have brought or subpoenaed witnesses, ask them to tell the judge what they saw and heard. The Defendant will have the chance to ask you and your witnesses questions.
After you have finished, the judge will ask the Defendant to give his testimony and present witnesses. If you disagree with what the Defendant is saying, don't interrupt. Write down what you want to ask or say later in response. When the Defendant finishes, you can ask questions. You can also ask questions of the Defendant's witnesses. You have the right to see any documents the Defendant presents.
If the Defendant brings up any new issues, you may testify again after the Defendant closes, but only to respond to any new issues raised by the defense, not to go back over evidence you have already presented.
After both sides have finished, the judge will decide the case. If the Defendant is there and the judge issues an Order, a deputy sheriff will serve the Defendant with the Order right away. You should get a copy of the Order, too. If the Defendant is not there, the clerk will get an officer to serve the Order on the Defendant. The clerk will also send a copy of the Order to your local police or sheriff's office.
Here are some options:
Call the police and tell them that the Defendant has violated your Order. The officer can arrest the Defendant for this violation. The officer does not need a warrant and does not have to see the violation in order to arrest. Most violations of the Order are at least Class D crimes. (Read your Order to see which criminal sanctions apply.) The maximum penalties for Class D crimes include one year in jail and a $2,000 fine.
The Maine legislature continues to add more serious criminal penalties for domestic abuse. For example, repeated acts and more extreme forms of domestic violence are categorized as Class C crimes. The maximum penalties for Class C crimes include five years in jail and a $5,000 fine.
If the Defendant is being prosecuted for crimes against you, contact the victim advocate at your county district attorney's office for information and support.
NOTE: The separation of "civil law" from "criminal law" creates a lot of confusion. The Protection from Abuse complaint system described here exists in the "civil" realm. A Protection from Abuse Order addresses "civil" issues that are between you and the defendant. In contrast, the "criminal" system oversees cases brought by the State of Maine against persons charged with crimes. An abuser's actions can trigger criminal charges, as well as the need for a civil Protection Order. Also, most violations of that civil Protection Order are classified as crimes. The Protection Order indicates which parts of the Order, if violated, are treated as crimes.
If the Order is going to run out and you still have good reason to believe that you need protection, you can ask for an extension of the Order. Ask the clerk's office for a Motion to Extend form. Fill this out, along with a new Protection Order Service Information form. The clerk will set a time and date for your motion to be heard by the judge after the Defendant has received notice of the hearing.
If you do not file the Motion to Extend before the old Order runs out, you will have to start all over again by filing a new Protection from Abuse Complaint. But a new Order must be based on more recent abuse. You cannot get a second Order based on the old acts of abuse that you complained to the Court about on the first round.
If you have mutual children and no long-term court order setting out parental rights and responsibilities, you may want to get this done while your Protection from Abuse Order is in effect. If you are married to the Defendant, you would deal with these issues in a Divorce. If you are not married to the Defendant, you would need to bring a Determination of Parental Rights and Responsibilities Complaint. If you do not have enough money to hire a lawyer, you may be able to get a free lawyer to help you. Call or write to:
Volunteer Lawyer's Project
P.O. Box 547
Portland, ME 04112-0547
Telephone: 1-800-442-4293 or, within Portland calling area, 774-4348
You can ask to be notified. Get more information on victim notification here. If your protection order is still in effect, and you are still afraid, you may be able to get an extension. If your order has run out, it may be difficult to get a new order. However, if the defendant does anything new to threaten you, you could then ask for a new order.
Regardless of whether you have a Protection Order in place, or not, the abuser commits a Class D crime if he:
Call 911. Or report the violation to the police or sheriff's department. Consider getting a Protection Order for longer-term protection, if you haven't already done that.
Updated August 2014; partially updated October 2015
Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence (Hotline numbers)
Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault (statewide hotline)
That's Not Cool: A Resource on Dating Violence and Harrassment
Full text of the Maine Protection From Abuse law
Protection From Abuse Statute as a .pdf file for printing